There are always unexpected things in life you can never plan for; and you learn a lot about yourself and family in those situations. I was reminded of this a couple days ago when the kids and I found ourselves in a car accident. We are beyond blessed to have walked away without any wounds physically or emotionally (wish I could say the same for my car which had to be towed). As for the other gal in the accident, she may not have been injured by the accident, but whatever possesses someone to drive into oncoming traffic is very concerning (please pray for her).
In situations like this, I don't really think, I just go into fight or flight mode. Which included important phone calls: 911, my husband, and the necessary people at church to say I wouldn't be there to teach. We were beyond blessed by the car that stopped with us to make sure everyone was okay. A car full of nurses (one a registered EMT), definitely a God thing.
Through this whole situation, my kids amazed me the most. They were totally fine and truly enjoyed hanging out with the fire fighters. Kristin of course asked them if I was going to jail. Kade was telling them about Jesus (stay tuned for this story in the future). And Kyler enjoyed sitting in the warm blanket the fire fighters provided since we were not dressed properly. Once I finally got a chance to really ask my kids how they were doing, Kristin's response was, "don't worry mommy, Jesus was with us when we were by ourselves in the car" (when I was outside talking to the officers).
The greatest thing I got out of this I learned from my children: put Jesus 1st and make him your focus no matter what the situation (panic mode is helpful to no one). The faith of a child is a powerful thing.
I have learned over the last year to really be thankful & find joy in every circumstance. I am so thankful for all the emergency crew who helped (especially the fire fighters), for the random strangers who stopped to help, for the bus stop benches that gave my children a place to sit, for family & friends who offered to help, for another insurance company that will pay for damages, for our insurance agent calling out of concern for our family, that no one else was involved despite the heavy traffic, for God keeping us safe, for Jesus being with my children and giving them peace, for my sons boldness to talk about Jesus, and most importantly for the opportunity I had to learn and be challenged in my faith.
On a other note, I also learned that we should dress more appropriately when leaving the house. Sweatshirts on my kids and flip flops on my feet were fine when we left, but when the sun starts to go down, the temperatures drop greatly.